This one is for you…

 

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Hi!

So, no.. I did not write this gem… BUT whoever did just rocked my soul!! Amazing read and  I couldn’t of explained myself better if I tried.  Live & let live… Sorry in advance for the f-bombs

For the dream seekers and the rebels, the ones who not only don’t fit into the mold—they fucking break it as well.

This is for the women who do give a fuck.

We give a fuck about ourselves, our lives and those that matter most to us—but mostly we give a fuck about making a difference in this one amazing life.

We know that we weren’t born to play life small, and while life has tried to smack us down at times, we stand right back up asking—is that all you’ve got?

This is for the women with the balls to be themselves—unapologetically.

Yes, the balls.

Because having balls isn’t about what’s hanging between the legs of a man—but what we are willing to risk, to go after what we love.

This is for the women who stay up late chasing dreams, and are up early with the sun making them a reality.

This is for those women with thirsty hearts and messy hair—the ones who march to the beat of our hearts and often find ourselves alone because of our choices.

This one is for you, for me, and for all the women who often wonder if they are alone in their individuality.

You’re not.

And although we are as unique as they come, we all are linked because of the desire to break free from the expectation that we need to be well-behaved women in order to be loved.

We can’t follow the rules for the life of us. When given the choice we always choose the most difficult road, because that is where we often learn the most.

This is for the women who take care of themselves. We are masters at keeping our shit together, even when it seems we can’t take one more step.

This is for the women who tuck themselves into bed each night. It’s not because we don’t want a lover with us, but because we know that, unless it’s genuine, solitude is so much sweeter than putting on an act.

This is for the women who just won’t conform no matter how many times people shake their heads at us.

These are the women who drink moonshine underneath the stars with their bare feet dirty, and their eyes wild dreaming of their next adventure.

The women who prefer to be untamed. We don’t care about letting our crazy show because we know it’s just as seductive as the pull of our eyes.

This is for all the women who’ve had people ask why we can’t just be like everyone else. Why can’t we stay in unhappy relationships? Why can’t we just stay with the secure job? Why can’t we just suck it up because we are adults? That is what adults are supposed to do.

But we were born differently. Where others see stability, we see stifling.

“We dream of a life that fills us with inspiration, and we dream of a love that even time will lie down and be still for.”

~ Alice Hoffman

We don’t know how to give up on the desires of our hearts.

And while we may seem to wander aimlessly at times, it’s all part of our un-plan. Because some are just born to be the movers and shakers in this life—to rattle and shake things up a bit.

And while we may drive you crazy at times, and scare the shit out of you at others, life would be boring without us.

For we are the wild ones—the ones who make life worth living.

Just wow.

Sweet dreams…..

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Let go of what won’t let you soar

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“They tried to silence you… They didn’t know you were music…”

just some powerful thoughts ..

Warrior human  – (noun)  highly sensitive, intelligent and fierce. Determined  to fight for your own heart, but rising above your imperfections, circumstances, fear and self-doubt, nurturing your  wild nature, loving you first and living life to its fullest, in the soulful inspiring company of other warriors

They try to sell you lies about your soul… But your creative truth burned harder. They try to tame  you… But your wild remained. They try to keep you in a box but you just knew that you were meant for more….

To leave your fear, expectations, disappointments and still tries behind. To let go of the old and the weary in you, to make space for the new. To drop the weight you’ve been  carrying and learn to honor and care for your heart. To say a firm yes to your passion and A firm no to what doesn’t love you. To cultivate what gives you life and dismiss what dismisses your soul. To give into your thirst for adventure ! Boom!!!

On that note .. Have a kickass rest of your week! Steal some magic moments ✨✨ & never stop until you find “something beautiful”

Sending love always,

Sarah

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Be mindful of that loving feeling

Hey! It’s been awhile…I’ve been busy working on my little life lately. I can only write when I feel inspired and I’ll be honest, I got into a rut & struggled a bit to get out of it. By no means am I not appreciative every day I open my eyes and am blessed with another day. By rut, I mean in a funk of repetitive days, or going through the motions. *note to self.. Don’t mistake comfort for happiness. Comfort can sometimes just be a more pleasant word for fear.

For those of you that know me, you know I have a gypsy soul and love to be high on life! So when I feel down, I shut down and kinda isolate myself until I can raise my own vibration. Took some soul searching, family time and some bad ass interactions in Los Angeles to snap me out of it! I read this recently and it rocked my soul “When a person doesn’t have gratitude, something is missing in his or her humanity. A person can almost be defined by his or her attitude toward gratitude. For me, every hour is grace. And I feel gratitude in my heart each time I can meet someone and look at his or her smile.” So beautiful!

A harsh reality for me lately has been that I don’t know when to jump when an opportunity arises. I’m usually the first one to be spontaneous and be all in but I’ve been hesitant. Life is way too short to not take advantage of what’s in front of my face. Sometimes I feel so anxious about life. The best way to describe it is, bound by chains and I want to be free. Be free to live the life I have always dreamed of before the world told me to be cautious, overthink and to fit a mold of how I “should” live. I’ve learned to shut that little voice down quickly. I am the only one in charge of how I navigate my journey.
*Opportunities are action on the move, looking for the brave soul who is ready to leap and say, “I’m in. I’m the one. Don’t pass me by.” But I know sometimes you hesitate because leaping is scary. I’ll let you in on a little secret. When the time is right and the opportunity is aligned and you hear me say “YES!” it’s time to trust and leap…Because the regret you’ll feel later if you don’t trust is often more painful than the discomfort of holding back. Boom!! Listen to your inner intuition!

Also, I’ve realized meeting new people at this stage of the game is sometimes tricky. Navigating through the different ways people have molded themselves through the years. I have to constantly remind myself that everyone is different and they communicate differently. I have been sensitive to this. How I would build a friendship or long lasting relationship is not always the way someone else would, and that’s ok… I have intense passion for others. As long as their energy is vibrating at the same frequency as mine we will be just fine, and If not..thanks for the amazing memories! That’s why taking pictures is so important. 😉 I’ve always loved this quote “My heart is at ease knowing what was meant for me will never miss me, and what misses me was never meant for me” ❤

Now for the good news…. let’s just say the last few days I’ve been soooo high on life! The kind of feeling you wake up and can’t wait to jump out of bed and take on the world. Make meaningful connections & smile at everyone I see. Sounds so cheesy but that’s exactly how I feel! I have so many opportunities and exciting things on the horizon that I’m anxious about life in the best way possible. My heart feels so full and I never want this feeling to leave! In life, we go through ups and downs, if we didn’t we wouldn’t be living or fulfilling our soul purpose. But they say, when you get to that high high vibration, pause, memorize it, be mindful of that loving feeling. Feel
It completely. You deserve it! Keep it high and that’s when miracles happen. It’s like a domino effect. When you’re in a good place, people are drawn to your light. Opportunities come and if you’re lucky you may even be ready for your soul mate. We all know love and connections is what makes this life so special and meanignful. You have to be happy and high on life to attract the positive,

Anywaysss..I hope you all are having a fabulous week filled with little miracles! And if you feel yourself in a slump, stressed or downright blah.. STOP, now raise your vibration, be thankful and carry on! Perspective 😉

Love you all!
Sarah Elizabeth

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Jump with me!

 

Is it wrong that what I seek is intense….
Is crazy, fun, loyalty and passion. That I want to look at someone and say ok I know we have both been hurt and this world has made us scared to be vulnerable but if you jump,so will I! I won’t let you fall.. We can even hold hands and jump together! I just want something real. Another human on this crazy journey to take my hand and say “let’s do this!”

Although I portray to be strong , tough & independent, and I am… I crave the vulnerability that comes with risk taking. Comes with stepping out of a comfort zone. It sounds easy right!?? Well, it’s not.
Unfortunately, this world has ruined a lot of people, and it’s only up to them to turn their journey around and make It right.

I have met so many different people traveling over the last few months and what I have found is this….
people are soooo scared to be true, to be vulnerable, to turn their head from drama, to be unapologetically themselves, to step out of their comfort zone into this beautiful world. They are scared to walk away from what no longer serves them. To take leaps of Faith and go for something or someone that inspires or intrigues them. To be vulnerable and have blind faith. If you are always  apprehensive and worried about what could go wrong, are you really fully living? I say, no way!

So what happens is, we intercept paths and we are thrown into another’s person journey with hopes that it wasn’t by coincidence and you play a part. Sad part is if you come with an expectation chances are you will be let down, but if you don’t.. The possibilities are endless.

I know one day I will meet that person that wants to jump with me. To look in each other’s eyes and say “I won’t hurt
You, let it all be about love and adventure !”
The biggest challenge is deciphering what you want. what you will accept, deciding if someone is right for you. I’ve learned slowly but surely to not overthink. To not judge. My forever human may come with not one thing I’m expecting. You have to trust the journey.

You know the feeling you get when your so in love? Everything about that person makes you smile and light up inside… That is what every single person wants.. If they say they don’t, they are completely lying to you. If they say they don’t it’s because they are so emotionally numb, insecure and scared. We are out here on this earth to find people we have soul connections with to guide us. If we are lucky we find our actual soulmate.

I know there is someone out there for us all..just have to keep your eyes open and drop any vision you may previously thought was what you wanted lol…. we all have our check list of what we want and don’t want.. Im Not telling you to throw it out, all I am saying is write it in pencil 😉
Anyways, hope everyone has a good night. These are just my late night thoughts.
Love,
Sarah Elizabeth  #spilledink #jumpwithme #myhuman

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Sunday’s ❤️

imageWatching the sunset, breathing, and feeling so grateful in my heart. ” I hold open the possibility, remote as it sometimes feels, that one day I may be able to carry the no matter what in my heart universally, unconditionally. Not to condone what is morally repugnant, but to unearth the possibility of a deeper loving-kindness, non-exclusive and radical, that encompasses, embraces, and undergirds all that is.” … ✨🙏🏼 #nomatterwhat #foreverlearning #blessed #wisewords #love #peaceful ❤️ Sunday

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It’s my birthday!

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Hi!
Soooo ..Today is my birthday.. I turn 25 😝.. again…

I decided to put a pause on the party to finish this blog post..
I thought maybe I shouldn’t blog tonight, as I do every year on my bday because I have so many emotions.. But then I thought “why not… it is what a blog is for, right?” 😉

I’m thankful for so many things.. But just reflecting on this past year I couldn’t be more grateful. It was a year of transitions, of the “in-between phases” that feel awkward but you know serve great purpose. This year I had to stop and ask myself what my heart wants. It has reminded me I’m fearless. I’m strong and above all else I can do anything I put my mind to. Also reminded me that people come and people go..that’s both liberating and overwhelming. When you love as hard as I do that concept is a hard one for sure. That some won’t agree with everything you do, and thats ok.. It’s your journey ,not theirs. That if you continue to have big dreams, some may tell you they are outlandish, and if you still believe they are possible.. they really will come true. I’ve also experienced when you’re vibing with high energy , your attracting the same energy and Its truly amazing! So vibe to my vibe 😉 I’ve learned that fear is a guiding tool to infinite possibilities. In order to move beyond comfort zones, and start living instead of existing, we must move through life believing that we were created limitless.

I’ve been passionately exploring, creating and designing my life, with an end result of living my dreams. This has been my goal, the last few months especially. So many new doors are opening. A lot of “first times”… And although at times I stop and reflect on the past .. And I dream of the future.. I remind myself all I have is right now, this moment. I’m blessed that  I’ve made it to this day, as life is a precious gift. The day I was born into this world to play out this crazy amazing journey years ago. I’m so grateful for my family and friends, new and old. The ones I can always count on, that make me laugh until my stomach hurts. The people that have taught me valuable lessons,even if they involved tears, I thank you for helping me live my purpose.  To my sweet Micah Anthony, for teaching me patience, unconditional love and always having someone to cuddle with at night when at times I feel alone in a world full of people. He doesn’t even realize his little hand in mine makes my world calm and complete. When he sleeps I kiss his face a million times and and smile knowing he will forever be my little boy. I’m thankful for my  resilient heart that stays strong even when at times it feels broken in a world full of harsh realities. To always  believing in love..

So here’s to another birthday! To 5am sunrises and late night sunsets..to traveling the world, music in my ears and wind against my face… To the amazing people I’m surrounded by..to all the little things that make my heart burst open. To everything that makes me feel alive. To love.
To many many more….

Thank you to every single person that wished me a happy birthday. To the calls, texts, flowers, dinner, cards, gifts. I read every single email and every comment on social media . My goal was to individually thank each person but the love was overwhelming. Just please know in thankful for all of you.

Now I’m putting on my little black dress and some stilettos … happy birthday to me!!!

Sarah Elizabeth

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Don’t live small!

Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns…We may want to love other people without holding back, to feel authentic, to breathe in the beauty around us, to dance and sing. Yet each day we listen to inner voices that keep our life small…. 💭💭💭 so much on my mind. With that being said.. Lately I’ve realized the days of me “living small” are over. Life is definitely a marathon not a sprint. I know that every single detail has brought me to now, this moment. I have big dreams, some of which seem  unattainable to the average person. I have never been so determined and focused in my life to accomplish everything I’ve ever wanted… No better time than the present.

“May my mind come alive today
To the invisible geography
That invites me to new frontiers,
To break the dead shell of yesterdays,
To risk being disturbed and changed.
May I have the courage today
To live the life that I would love,
To postpone my dream no longer
But do at last what I came here for
And waste my heart on fear no more.”

Now to get ready for a great night!

p.s. It’s a new moon tonight, manifest your dreams people! 💋

Love,

Sarah Elizabeth

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Grace, Wonder & Mystery..

Everything we need or want is waiting inside each day … right before us in flawed abundance …nothing is clean or perfect, and nothing unfolds as planned.  For the Universe is vital, not perfect.  Full of endless seeds attempting to be one thing, colliding with another, and becoming a third.

 One of the more difficult paradoxes to accept is that this abundance of gifts is always quietly present and it is we who drift in and out of seeing it.  The one recurring doorway to this vitality is our simple participation in life.  When we slip into heartless watching, the abundance seems to vanish.  When we dare to show up and be fully present, grace and wonder and mystery start to appear, even in the midst of pain.  Not as planned dreams, or as images of lovers, or as scripts of success designed by our fantasies of ourselves.  But as oddly shaped pods of vitality bursting to multiply and bring us further into the mystery of living.

Mark Nepo, The Exquisite Risk.

LOVE.

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Happy New Year! 2️⃣0️⃣1️⃣6️⃣✨

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Good morning & Happy first day of the new year!

Wow & what a year it’s been!
Definitely been a year of changes. A year of serious radical growth . A year that has made me uncomfortable in making big decisions. Forced me to become super independent. A year of self love, discovery and many lessons learned along the way. My biggest challenge this year has been being very available to undeserving humans, and learning when the chapter is over (in relationships, friendships, career etc) & to walk away. I’m not going to sugar coat it, it’s never easy BUT when you realize your worth .. You realize some people don’t deserve your love or time.. They are meant to just pass through.. Let them go with love. They fight battles you know nothing about.. I know with my crazy huge heart this will be a challenge forever but I continue to work on it daily.

I wouldn’t say it was the best year but I would say I’m super proud of myself. That every morning I open my eyes I’m blessed beyond belief. I’m grateful for my crazy, awesome, loud Italian family. My true friends, we may not talk every day but we have an unbreakable bond. To new friends that have shown me how to
be vulnerable In giving & receiving friendship. I have an amazing job that I love with great people. I have the most precious and beautiful son. Every moment I look at him and I remember what life is all about. So, although life can be challenging it is SO wild and beautiful!! The best is yet to come! Sooo many things to look forward to in 2016 ….

I would say you have to lay the ground work, get to know Yourself, by yourself & weed through the toxic before you can bask in what your heart longs for. So with that being said , I would say this year is game time for me! Life is truly a blessing. I will forever work to become a better woman. I pray all my hopes and dreams come true. As I like to say….dream it, believe it, say it, manifest it. 😉

Today is a new beginning for us all..
Let your inner spirit and soul guide you this year and always..
My wish for you and for myself…

To blaze new trails into unknown places. Explore untapped desires & stray into uncertain territory. Take risks. Say YES often , and no, when it is time. Set boundaries that should of been set years ago. Open doors you’re longing to swing free.. Try new things..and let go of old things that no longer serve you. Free yourself
from society’s expectations and give yourself permission to be exactly who you are with no apology. Be fearless! Choose love! Create miracles
Are you ready?
Remember that life is a journey filled with balance,rather than quick fixes. So be kind, loving and accepting of you for who you are today, as that will make your goals a lot easier to fulfill.
Trust the magic of new beginning…
This year will be totally kick ass!

Good vibes ✨✨
Sarah Elizabeth

#dreamchasing #istillbelieve #love #anewyear

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Hey hey!!

All my life, I knew I was going to be SOMETHING. Something great. Something wonderful. Successful, famous and something so intellectually on point, I would lightly stab the world between the eyes.
“Here I am, World. Eat your heart out!

Yes, I have been focusing on me and what this next year will bring me. I’ve worked extremely hard becoming the woman I am today. I know I have a bright future and many things to look forward to anddd all I have ever dreamed of WILL be my reality..

But you know what I’ve been doing lately? I’ve been praying for people… Yup, you read right, I’ve been praying a lot for people I love and have crossed paths with.
I’ve completely removed my little heart from this ruthless world, and I’ve never felt better…

How does a woman of this world focus less on BEING something and devote herself to DOING something?
Prayer, you guys. It all comes down to prayer.
In the past, I’ve been what you would call a “casual” pray-er. If an anxiety attack comes on, God’s the first dude I call. If my plane is doing the turbulence dance, I’m all over the prayer stuff. If anyone I love has a suspicious looking mole on their cheek and even if it only turns out to be a sprinkle from their cupcake, I’ll pray so hard.
& for the longest time, prayer wasn’t necessarily something I sought to do on a regular basis, nor was it a thing that I believed actually worked. Really, it was just a way to focus my mind on something so worry wouldn’t give me anxiety in my stomach…
God isn’t some genie in the sky who blinks and grants your every wish. And I’m right, He’s not…
But He’s love. He’s the connection between your heart and mine. And when we pray with intention for another human being instead of our own selfish needs and wants, we’re helping to connect those we’re praying for to God and wrap them in his warm embrace. Try it, it works ❤️😉

with love..

Sarah Elizabeth

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