It’s  not easy having a kind heart in a cruel world. At times I am in pain and I have a dull ache in my heart that feels Just terrible.. I have such high hopes for people that cross my path and always try to look for the best. I’m definitely guilty of thinking most people are good & painting the picture I want to see and not looking at the actions of the other person… I’m learning through experience that when someone shows you who they are just accept it…don’t listen to what they say or how they try to sweet talk, watch and observe actions.. Know that they fight their own battles, walk their own journey and most things have nothing to do with you at all, it within them. It definitely isn’t fair at all when someone tries to be someone they aren’t and then awakens the fire within a women’s heart only to let them down. Maybe they don’t even realize they are doing it, Its hard for me to believe that people don’t understand how their actions effect others.. But then I think maybe those type of people need to cross your path to teach this very lesson. Anyways, the point of this rant is that I’m laying in bed just thinking about life and people and actions.. About what’s REAL… And about the people in my life. I obviously think way to much , but that’s just the way I’m wired so writing helps to get it out of my head. I believe life is so much more than we know.. It’s so magical and everything is connected. We have soul contracts and things to learn and to teach others… Energy flows through us all. I’m so thankful that my fragile heart is so very strong.. That it doesn’t get numb or keep me disappointed for to long…it’s a blessing and a curse to love and feel the way I do….I do however hope for some truly beautiful souls to come into my life very soon, don’t want to lose hope.

Sweet Dreams,

Sarah ✨✨✨✨🌟

#terriblyreal #actions #truecolors #love #istillbelive 💜

may you listen to the voice within the beat of your heart even when your tired, when you feel Yourself breaking down, may you break open instead. May every experience in life be a door that opens our heart, expands your understanding, and leads you to freedom . If you are weary, may you be aroused by passion and purpose. If you are blameful or bitter, may you be sweetened by hope and humor. If you are frightened, may you be emboldened by a big consciousness far wiser than your fear. If you are lonely , may you find love, may you find friendship. If you are lost, may you understand that we are all lost, and still we are guided by angels and the light within us, all of us. Follow the vibrant voice within the beat… May you follow that voice , for this is the only way-  the hero’s journey , the life worth living, the reason we are here.

💜💜💋

Sarah

selcouth

Strange, unusual, rare; unfamiliar; marvellous, wondrous. ✨✨✨✨✨💌🌠💭💭

“The single fact of dreaming is already very important. I wish that your dreams will never end and I wish you the fierce desire to realize some of them, and make them your reality. I wish you to love what shall be loved and to forget what shall be forgotten. I wish you silent nights by yourself to get in touch with your soul. I wish you to one day wake up to children’s laughter. I wish for you to believe in love, no matter what.. I wish you to resist stalemate, indifference, negative virtues of our time. I wish you most of all, to be you.” ✨💞

I just want to touch on this topic…..

How cool is it in a world full of billions to meet really genuine and awesome humans. I truly believe in our day to day we cross paths with all kinds of people, some we see and some we really SEE. You make eye contact and you just know. Or you see the person and are drawn to them. Certain stand out, make a switch go off In your heart. Almost as if you know them from a different lifetime and are reuniting. You feel completely comfortable and pick up where you left off. A soul connection. It doesn’t happen often, but when it does it’s really cool! Like how did you find me again!? Lol what’s even more cool is the “catch up” to see the struggle, heartache,beauty and journey thus far. I’ve been really in touch with my soul lately. I’ve learned to live in the moment , be free, and above all ALWAYS do what what makes your soul smile, not what seems like the “right” thing to do in society. I watch “Soul Garden” every morning and yesterday the message in short was to ” commit to the smile” what he meant by this was: if it makes you smile, your heart and soul are happy, go with it! Whatever lights you up don’t let it go! Let me clarify, keep it simple and I don’t mean cling on to a man or woman & turn it into
Something it isn’t (our mind tends to play tricks on us) before we even go on a second date our mind is already picturing a future with a puppy and all. 😝 we are all guilty of this at some point. BUT instead live in the moment, do what makes you smile, be around people that Inspire you and make your soul on fire!! 🔥 guess what I’m saying is , slow down, appreciate awesome humans when their right in front of you and really SEE them. Always commit to the smile and anyone that makes our heart happy. Oh and remember if at some point they don’t make you smile anymore, soul contract is up, work is done and let them be free so they can grow on their own journey.
Life is SO beautiful when you simplify It and allow only positive vibes. I seriously love you all!
Love,
Sarah Elizabeth ✨

“Sometimes against all odds fate conspires with destiny to bind lost souls together ”

#inspired #befree #live #soulconnection

If your future self has a message for you, it might look something like this:

1. Everyone is going through something. Compassion is a universal language.
2. As you age, your body will change unexpectedly. Just go with it.
3. Not everyone has to like you for you to be loved.
4. The best potential relationship of your life will be with yourself. The sooner you can become your own best friend, the easier your life will be.
5. You are more beautiful, smarter, and more capable than you give yourself credit for.
6. Your happiness will be in direct proportion to what you are willing to accept and let be.
7. Forgiveness may be one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do, but once you allow for it, you will feel unconditional freedom like you never imagined.
8. Everything is connected. What you’re going through right now is part of your bigger picture.
9. Love never ends. Your relationships may change form, but love is in your heart forever.
10. Your insecurities and fears are part of your life lessons. Overcoming them is part of the life process and mission.
11. You’re never off track or behind. It’s all in divine order.
12. Do what you love as often as you can. It is the fastest way to find your happy.
13. You don’t need a lot of money to do what you want. The sooner you can focus on results versus reasons it can’t happen, the more fulfilled you will be.
14. Putting yourself first isn’t selfish; it’s essential for your own well-being.
15. No amount of guilt will solve your problems. Anxiety won’t change the future. Be present — it’s all you have.
16. Everyone everywhere wants the same thing: love and acceptance.
17. Deferring your happiness to the future just keeps you unhappy indefinitely.
18. Investing in experiences is more rewarding than things.
19. You will learn the way on the way. Trust the process and be in the journey.
20. Your life is not off track, and you’ve made no mistakes. You are right where you need to be to get to where you want to go.

Sarah Xo

I left my heart in NYC XOXO

I’ve never needed someone to come along and take me away from my current life. I’ve always needed a partner who can challenge me, inspire me, intrigue me and fascinate me because of his passions in life. A man that has his own life and passions, hobbys, friends .. Someone who can be part of my life, without being all of it…

I’ve always day dreamed about how the life I’ve built for myself would feel when I was able to share it with someone I love and adore. When I was younger I believed in fairytales and a prince charming to come and rescue me. I dreamed he was handsome and everything with him would be nothing short of perfect. In the past I needed the thrills, the riches, the wild life filled with excitement, fancy clothes and  lavish events. what I want now is something much simpler and unique. I want a man who can remember the little things.Like how I like my vanilla latte at Starbucks. Someone who can make me laugh and when I get a little anxious about something he knows what to say to bring me back to “its not that serious” without saying those words obviously lol a man that can lay with me on the couch and listen to music without saying a word. I never  wanted a man to try to steal my independence or can’t understand it.  Instead, I want a guy who is strong enough to stand by my side, not in front or behind. To be my best friend even when times get tough. To love life with me..To be “my kind of different”, as I like to say.

I’ve been called picky quite a bit.. been told im someone who is waiting for some soul mate or Prince Charming, the perfect man, I’ve been accused of holding out for something that doesn’t exist, having my eye on some ridiculous prize ….

what I’m actually doing is working on MY own story. Its not going to be a fairytale when it happens it’s going to be part of my story, my journey. Truth is, I’m not really picky, but I do know what I look for in a  man that can fill that missing piece. Yes I would love to have our paths cross sooner than later but I’m busy living my crazy little life.

I don’t have to settle with someone to be secure, or to rescued but choose a partner who thinks my independent strength is sexy. A man who admires my qualities of being a strong but nurturing woman.  One where marriage isn’t summed up three words of happily ever after, but is a lifetime of ups and downs. A relationship where there is no games, no bs, because we both choose each other.

It might have taken me a few decades to see fairy tales for what they are, magical love stories that we see in the movie remind us that love is possible;but not quite an accurate description of what a relationship really is. I just wish for happiness in life. And in love.

Im just living my story and trusting the journey… one day our stories will meet and ill probably be writing about you in my blog posts, but until then, I hope we are happily apart.

Love Always

Sarah Elizabeth XoXo

#istillbelieve #love #independent #becauseiwantyou

Soooo life has been weird but awesome lately……

I was watching Super Soul Sunday (as usual) a few weeks ago and they made this analogy. Picture a butterfly cupped in your hands, now open them, if the butterfly stays its supposed to, if it flys away its supposed to…let it go…Well that hit me super hard!

So I’ve taken this approach the last few weeks with everything from friends ,men, work opportunities, decisions etc  I’ve been sitting back, living my life and observing how people operate and how things unfold when you let the universe step in. I haven’t put in much effort because I only want what’s real in my life and what is meant to stay. In the past I would feel anxious about not reaching out to certain people or mending certain situations where in my heart I know I’m not at fault, and because I’m a complete social butterfly it’s hard for me to lay low. I would feel a need to state my peace or talk things out, but now as people exit my life I let them go with a breath of fresh air, I feel peaceful and surprisingly relieved. Almost as if God and the universe is just directing everything perfectly.

I’m realizing as I do this and I see these people from a panoramic view without being involved the reasons I’m to keep my distance…..

Without getting into to much detail about anyone in particular I’ve noticed that I don’t want to live in a way that’s destructive, where I’m not growing, evolving and being inspired by  people I surround myself with. I’ve noticed to many people live a life where they aspire to be a certain person so bad but do nothing but put statuses on social media to get there. That will never be me. I’ve also noticed that there are a lot of phony people that lie, judge, feed on drama and pretend to be people they aren’t at all. It makes me sad but grateful they aren’t around me.  Sorry for this rant, its been on my mind, one, because its crazy how things unfold if you allow them to and two, it baffles me how at peace I am with it all. If you want to stay, stay.. if you want to go, go…if you aren’t resistant and are true to yourself it will all unfold for your greater good. I believe If there is one thing I know for sure its who I am and what I stand for. Its that love is the greatest gift one can give and receive and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle…ever! Sooo with all that being said…I welcome anyone or anything that wants to cause me stress, or uneasy feelings to go with the wind..dont worry ill let cha go with love & light 😉

Love, SE  XoXo

#dontdullmysparkle #flyaway #direction #universe #letgoandletGod

& sometimes I like to sit on the beach and just think ….

Hey Hey! Been awhile…..

What we go through in life is part of a bigger plan. Everything is connected and we always have a choice. If something isn’t working in our lives, we can either change how we’re looking at it or remove ourselves from the situation.