To live life being “stable” & “content”
OR
To live with “fire” & “passion”

Can you have both???

This seems to be a big question between a few of my friends…

I recently had a friend tell me about “The 5 love Languages” book & how in this book ( and don’t quote me) it says we all go through stages in a relationship. The first year or two you would die to be together all the time .. It then settling later on into “real life & forever” where the excitement of the new becomes a reality of two people living everyday life with its ups and downs and all it’s craziness. Then it’s not that you “need” to be with them..it changes .. Do you “want” to be with them? If you can transition from the crazy intense passion into the next stage you may start to feel the flame dulling and maybe even start to think “is this it?” ” is this what forever will feel like?” Even though you have learned a lot about each other, learned to live together with all your differences, everything now seems content and alittle routine.
This is about the time you start searching.. For something, maybe soul purpose, maybe a new career, a change of address, a vacation, an adrenaline rush of some sort, new friends or relationships..
Whyyyy can some of us not stand when everything is just “ok”
Can you be “ok” and still “high on life”?
Can you have everything you have ever wanted at the point your life and still crave so much more… Why not be grateful, happy & blessed.
We are all forever growing and learning. The high you get when you first meet someone is something beautiful to experience but not something to long for, you will be temporary satisfied if so.
On a different note love should be insanely beautiful and amazing.. So never settle 😉
Live in the NOW & don’t take anyone or anything for granted!
Remember tomorrow is never promised & temporary happiness (the high) is just that..temporary.
Think on this… 🙂

just remember life is all about perspective, how we view situations and circumstances.
Change your perspective to see the glass half full!
It is in your silence & observation that we make crucial decisions that can affect our whole life…

Thoughts for today
Love you all
XoXo
Sarah Elizabeth