✨ energy …

Sooo it’s no secret that I tend to soak up other people’s energy like a sponge & it can be difficult for me to stay grounded in my own happiness and optimism when someone around me is feeling upset, anxious, depressed, etc. I’ll be the first to admit — I have a hard time when people around me are in a bad mood. It makes me really uncomfortable and I feel
So off…I always want to fix it and I often take it personally, even when it’s clearly not about me at all. I get a feeling in the pit of my stomach that aches. I often find myself wanting to troubleshoot someone else’s energy state, rustling around for something that can help them and make them happy again. I hate when people hurt. I see such beauty in the eyes of others even if there is sadness or conflict. Sometimes people want that kind of help, but other times it’s a losing game and I just end up suffering too…
This is something I’m seriously, actively working on…. To allow people to go through things and push through the pain or obstacle, life lesson, whatever you want to call it , And just be there if they need me.
Everyone is on their own journey … I always say when someone is going through a life change or being tested ” it’s like going into the fire, through the ashes & into New life” if you just have blind faith that God or there is a higher power directing your life and you trust the journey I promise it all
happens the way it should, even if it doesn’t make sense…
Do not take things personal and realize not everyone is in the same
Place as you, soulfully, spiritually, emotionally , romantically …..

The truth is, everyone is coming from their own unique perspective based on their past,faith, beliefs, relationships, view of the world…etc. we all react differently to situations but rarely do we actually take that into consideration when someone else’s energy is affecting us..or someone is loving us in a way we don’t understand….. It doesn’t mean they don’t love us or care about us, it’s Just their way, and that’s ok…
Relationships are truly our greatest teachers, as it’s almost impossible not to be affected by the energy of the people we spend most our time with ….and if your like me and when you care about someone there isn’t anything you wouldn’t do for them, when it isn’t reciprocated we tend to feel let down….even if it’s as simple as a phone call back…

The most important thing when you’re dealing with someone else’s energy is just to stay grounded in peace and love and be a good power of example. Eventually your positive energy will calm and diffuse any negativity (or, alternatively, you can remove yourself from the situation).

Detaching yourself from the situation, giving the person space, and not taking it personally are probably the best remedies out there…this can often be the most difficult thing to do if you’re a “fixer” type of person like I am…

Moral of my Monday night thoughts —> keep yourself high vibe & positive! Don’t take it personal when someone around you has weird energy or is going through “stuff” …

I read this quote awhile back and I always think of it …..
“It took a long time for me
To realize that people love differently”– and once you have realized this, only then can you find your kind of different ✨✨😉 pretty powerful huh!

“And you know, at the end of the day, when things are difficult, we just have to try to love people even harder. ” 💕

Love Always, Sarah Elizabeth

#spilledink #mythoughts #positiveenergy #yourkindofdifferent ✨✨👌😉